Four things, done well.
Socii isn't trying to be everything. It's a private space for your inner circle to write, question, remember, and gather. That's it.
Write what you're actually thinking.
Not a caption. Not a hot take for strangers. Actual thoughts — the thing that happened at work, the parenting moment that broke you, the idea you can't stop thinking about.
Share with specific friends or a group. They write back. Over months, you build something: a record of your thinking, a correspondence worth keeping.
“Been thinking about what you said about the job. You're right — I'm more scared of staying than leaving. Going to have the conversation this week.”
— Reply to Alex's post, shared with 3 friends
Ask what you actually want to know.
“What changed your mind recently?” “What's something you're afraid to admit?” “What would you do with a free year?”
The conversations you wish happened more but never do because there's no natural entry point. Now there is.
What's one thing you believe now that 25-year-old you would argue with?
Remember what matters.
Private notes about your friends. Only you can see them. Their kid's birthday. What they're stressed about. The thing they mentioned last time that you want to follow up on.
Being a good friend means paying attention. This helps you pay attention.
Actually get together.
Scheduling dinner shouldn't take 47 messages. Pick dates, see who's free, lock it in. Then do it again.
The app reminds you when it's been too long. Not guilt — just a nudge. “You haven't seen James in 4 months. Want to plan something?”
5 going • Oct 18-20 • Big Bear
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